Hey, folks,
I just read a post over on Lee Harrington’s blog, talking about compensation for leaders in the Kink world, and I wanted to direct people to it. He raises some really good points about how compensation isn’t always financial, and his address (for the Kink LYNCS Conference), particularly the first half of it, hit a lot of buttons for me in terms of where my own burn-out has come from.
Fair Energetic Exchange: Destigmatizing the Needs of Community Leaders, Presenters and Volunteers
Kali has mentioned, in at least one of the video lessons, that “money” (or at least “payment”) is often treated like a “dirty word” within various alt communities. Maybe that’s why I’ve felt so much guilt over being “greedy” and wanting to “get something out of” the events I organize and the work I do. This article gave me some language to talk about what that actually means, and why it’s not a bad thing.
I hope you’ll give it a read.
I had just emailed this article to Kali right around when you posted it. I didn’t even know we were allowed to post here :)
Lee also just put out a podcast discussing these ideas: http://www.eroticawakening.com/files/ea248.php
It was synchronicity! Also in that I was going to post on the blog that you all are welcome to post resources yourself if you’re familiar with the WordPress system, and if you’d like me to post something ‘as’ you just email it to me directly!
I read this on Fetlife a couple days ago. (I think off Ellie’s wall). It’s awesome. Thanks for posting it, it’s a great idea!!